If you get into the second or third trimester and realize you are dreading checkups because you don’t like your doctor, or you don’t particularly trust his or her judgment, you might wonder: Can you change prenatal caregivers, even during your pregnancy?

In a word, yes — unless he or she is the only doctor within 50 miles, or you’re due within a month or two. (Even then there are options, but it will be a lot more complicated.) Should you, though? And will it be easy? Those questions aren’t as simple to answer.

Switching doctors midway through your pregnancy

Doctor No?

Before deciding whether or not a switch makes sense, you need to get really clear on what you do want in a caregiver, and then get clear on what your current physician does and doesn’t offer. (Consider making a pros and cons list.)

Usually, for a woman to want to get a new caregiver partway through pregnancy means that she and the doc have a pretty major difference of philosophy. For example, you may want a VBAC, and he’s completely against the idea. Or maybe you don’t want to have your labor induced, but your doctor says you have to because the baby’s getting “too big.”

It could be even simpler: You don’t like his or her schedule (you’re always waiting), gender (for example, you’d rather have a woman examine you), bedside manner (a porcupine would be an improvement) — or there are other ways you just aren’t comfortable with the arrangement.

Malpractice or other major issues

If the problem you have with your doctor is more than just a difference in philosophy, and there are truly serious concerns — along the lines of malpractice, or you believe someone is behaving unethically or unprofessionally — you should seek professional legal advice and/or contact your state medical board to file a complaint.

To do a little independent research first, the American Medical Association (AMA) has a Code of Medical Ethics you can review online, while Nolo has outlined some tips on how to check out complaints that have been previously filed against a doctor or hospital.

Since changing healthcare providers can be a pretty big hassle, the first thing to consider before switching is communicating with your doctor. If face-to-face would be too hard, try writing an email or letter. You might also look into transferring to another caregiver at the same practice.

No dice? Then read on.

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What are your options?

Remember that you won’t always have a lot of choices available to you, depending on your insurance and your location. Want to deliver at a particular hospital? Again, you may not have a lot of choices available to you.

Similarly, if you have a high-risk pregnancy or a specialized health issue, the number of providers who are qualified to treat you may also be limited.

Finding the right doc this time

When looking at another caregiver, the number one priority is to be sure you’re not jumping from the frying pan into the fire. Do your research by talking to friends, family and co-workers for recommendations, and look through online reviews.

Discuss your concerns in a interview with the potential new doctor. Discuss your wants and needs, and be open about how your caregiver didn’t meet your desires. Also think about alternatives to the Ob/Gyn: Perhaps you want to consider a midwife or a family physician.

>> Find the right pregnancy care: Prenatal caregiver checklist

You might want to find out more about the RESPECT Model, a philosophy for caregivers to use to enhance the doctor/patient relationship. There are seven major tenets: 1) rapport, 2) empathy, 3) support, 4) partnership, 5) explanations, 6) cultural competence and 7) trust. For example, the guidelines for rapport and partnership are particularly relevant to you during pregnancy:

Rapport

Connect on a social level.
See the patient’s point of view.
Consciously attempt to suspend judgement.
Recognize and avoid making assumptions.

Partnership

Be flexible with regard to issues of control.
Negotiate roles when necessary.
Stress that you will be working together to address medical problems.

A few things to know before making the leap

So you’re not left without prenatal care, always set things up with your new caregiver before saying goodbye to the old one. (You will also need to get a copy of your medical records, for which there may be a “processing fee” of $50 or so.)

A quick note about lateral moves — that is, to another physician in the same practice or medical group: Find out if your new doctor or midwife is in the same network, because there’s the potential that the doctor you left could be the one delivering your baby if he or she is the one on call at that moment.

With everything you will be thinking about in the days leading up to birth, you probably don’t want to worry about how awkward things will be if you end up with your ex-physician on the other side of the birthing bed.

It may seem silly to care so much about how a caregiver makes you feel,  but it’s not. Birth is a big deal — physically and emotionally — and while there are a hundred factors out of your control, it makes sense to make sure that you’re at least happy with your options for the medical professional part of the equation. You and your baby deserve that much.


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Nancy J Price
Editor-in-chief

In addition to being the co-founder and Editor-in-Chief of Myria, Nancy J Price was one of the two original founders of SheKnows.com in 1999, helping turn it into one of the world's top lifestyle websites for women. While serving as the site’s executive editor for twelve years, Nancy also helped launch five national newsstand magazines. A history buff, she spent her first three post-SK years creating the Click Americana website, and writing the historical fiction time travel novel Dream of Time. Although she's a fourth-generation San Francisco Bay Area native who got her start interviewing and photographing bands in Northern California during the eighties, Nancy now lives in Arizona with her four kids and her fiancé, novelist Daniel Price.


About: An earlier version of this article originally appeared on Pregnancy & Baby

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